Saturday, September 30, 2023

September- Uni

 The bittersweet moment when A left for university, a decision born out of risks and sacrifices, yet filled with hope for a brighter future. He didn't finish A-levels but took a leap into a foundation program, a path we carefully paved so that he could attend a university that held promise. Little did I realize the emotional toll this transition would take on me, as a mother, and on the dynamics of our family.

He is more than a son; he was the anchor when his father was away on rotation, the reliable adult I leaned on for support. As he packed his bags, ambitions soaring, we were left behind - me and his two siblings - feeling adrift and strangely lost. The tears flowed freely, and the house echoed with the absence of his presence.

The unanticipated waves of sorrow, and the realization that sometimes, no matter how prepared we think we are, the heartache of an empty nest hits us when we least expect it. A mother not quite ready to let go, even when she thought she was!!!

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